I like this girl at the gym and I wanted to see if maybe she'd give me her number so we can maybe hang out or get some food. Friends tell me the gym is the wrong place to do it. But I don't see her anywhere else so the only place to ask is the gym... Am I wasting my time or should I just ask?
- The gym is a bad place to ask for her numberVote A
- It's not a bad place just wait until she's not working outVote B
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Some won't like it others will. You just need to be willing to embrace any opportunity that comes along, and hope she is one of the people that will appreciate your approach. You can't worry about pleasing everyone. That is one reason why players and assholes often do better than nice guys. Those guys aren't overthinking things, and instead put themselves out there more often, increasing their odds of meeting a woman. The nice guy sits quietly in the corner worrying about offending a woman by asking her out at the wrong place or time and end up alone for a lot longer.1