And why do guys bend their ways to do what a women wants (i. e. commitment)? If a woman can say "no, I don't just want a fk or a one night stand", why can't men just go "no sex means no dating".
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Not all women expect relationships. I've seen many posts on here with women who have friends with benefits. So not all women are looking for a relationship.
But that being said, if you are only looking to hook up, then I would put that on the table early on. If a woman doesn't want to just hook up, move on. Find someone who wants the same things as you.
The problem is it sounds like you are trying to get with people who want different things than you do. It's not up to them to change their idea of what they want to suit your's and vice versa. You just have to keep trying until you find someone compatible.
Plus some people don't want to just be used for sex. There is nothing wrong with hooking up. But denying someone a date because they won't have sex with you seems seedy in my opinion. You don't have to go on an expensive date, and you don't even have to pay for them at all. A simple walk in the park where you both talk are valid dates.
But if you are really not interested in a relationship, be honest about it. Find women who want to hook up.0