My boyfriend sees a future with me, but I don't. Should I tell him?
Updates: Most Helpful Guy
Yes be honest with him and yourself.
Most Helpful Girl
of course you should tell him, because you would only be leading him on thinking you're on the same page. No one really looks for short term relationships until someone better comes along-- you want to be able to see them in the long run. However shit happens
What Guys Said 14
Yes, it may hurt to do it. But it is better hurt someone than to lead them on, and hurt them a lot more down the line.
Yes of course. If you don't then you'd be stringing him along which isn't fair to either of you.
tell him you are both young.. and not to look so far ahead instead of saying
"i dont see a future with you"
Yes, especially given your age.
just start quoting future songs
Why waste his time if you don't feel the same as him? Let him be with someone better...
Tell him what you feel and break it off... You are just wasting his time... Clearly he is more in line with you than you are...
For sure !
So just go and tell him rn...
What happens if you tell him? Whats the benefit for you and him? What happends/benefit if you dont tell him?
If you dont and he won't change then stop wasting your time.
YES be real about it dont waste each others time
Yes. Don't put off the inevitable, it's selfish just to keep that from him. Be honest.
You're 18, and life to go
What Girls Said 16
Sit him Down, with a bit of a Frown, and set the record straight, perhaps with a little sugar coating to the Plan... You are Not Ready for a Real Relationship and for now, you find it Best from the Rest to Remain Friends... In just your Own Names. Good luck. xx
Yes you should tell him. If you don't realistically see a future with someone then it's kind of pointless to continue being in a relationship with them anyway.
Yes you should tell him. It's not fair to waste his time like that
Absolutely. That's very important for him to know.
Of course you should.. The sooner the better.. He's then got a chance to move on with his life.
Yeah stop wasting his time.
He needs to know how you feel and the truth is important in a relationship, so yes
Well... I'm sure that'd hurt him.
Do you want to be with him?
Yes. The future can only build together... You and he
So you should tell HIM your real feelings and what do you see about him.
Yes, you should be honest with him ^^
Yes, u should. It's not fair for him
Yes pls be honest with him.
Of course. Don't lead him on.
yes you should tell stop lead him on it's cruel
Yes, you should definitely tell him. If it was the other way around, I'm sure you would have wanted to know whether you're investing time in someone who does not even see a future with you.
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