My boyfriend freaked out because I didn't know I was going to get my period and got a bit tiny bit of blood on the bed even tho as soon as I noticed I got up and started looking for something to clean it up with and I put it into the wash right away I can understand maybe being upset but freaking out and getting mad this much? Its not like I knew am I wrong? Or is he overreacting?
Meant to say guys not guts
Also we hadn't had sex when this happened I just had it when I woke up this morning and he was having a shower so I started cleaning it when he got back in I told him
He is overreacting big time. I've had sex with my wife on her period and after being done I didn't know if I should wash the sheet or put police tape around the bed as it looked like a crime scene. Plus you cleaned it and washed it yourself. He shouldn't be too upset.
He's overreacting. It's a little blood. If your boyfriend (this goes to all ladies) is afraid of a little blood and periods, they're ridiculous. It's NATURAL. It's not like we can't carry out this function or stop it from happening. If he's going to act like that when it's a natural, human function, imagine how he'll act over other things. Guys, please don't be a dick to your girl when she gets her period. If anything, be there for her and understand. Nothing hotter than a guy who understands and is aware that this is NORMAL. Get yourself a man, not a little boy. I'm sorry he got mad at you hun, you did nothing wrong. He's just being an ass.
I assume your boyfriend freaked out if something was wrong with you, cause you were bleeding, even when you were not on your periods, I would be a bit scared and worried about my girl if she bleeds and we are uninformed that she will be on period.. But I will keep it my responsibility to keep track of cycle of 28 days, but then again your periods do not have fixed time so it's unpredictable...
Yeah, he's overreacting. If a girl bled on my bed and cleaned it afterwards, I wouldn't be mad. I would be mad if she didn't clean it though. You did put the sheets on the wash and tried to clean it. He shouldn't be mad.
Hell no! My girlfriend has very bad flow and often bleeds all over the bed. You know what I do? I sleep right next to her with my arms around her. It's just blood and it makes her feel better knowing I'm there. If there's blood on me I just take a shower and help her clean up. That's what a real boyfriend does in my opinion.
I will for sure although I usually does not act like civilized person my things are always scattered and usually I am trying to find them and focus but still the blood will freak me out I mean how the hell you don't know lets suppose he is licking your pussy that day and that blood gets in to his mouth.
so i dont want to give the entire story but one of my exs left me quite bloody one time. yeah its kinda gross, not because its your vaginal wall bleeding its cuz its blood. but yeah ur boyfriend is immature and over reacted.
Pretty big overreaction tbh. It's something natural, no biggie. You're actually the person who's going through a rough time at the moment of your period so it should somewhat be the other way around :P
Jesus that's overreacting big time. You did everything you could, he's being ass for making you feel bad about something that's out of your hands.
You should talk to him about it and explain that sometimes periods can get irregular and you don't always have pains as a warning in beforehand. If he still wants to be in a relationship with you or any woman he should get used to the idea of this happening again because you can't control stuff like that.
How exactly were you supposed to know at that second your period was coming? It comes when it wants to come and at least you took the time out to clean it and everything. You didn't just leave it there. He's completely over reacting and in my opinion that's a total dick move
What do you mean by freak out? If he was intentionally making you feel bad about it that's really not cool - it wasn't your fault and he's gonna have to get used to the fact that these things happen. It happens to every woman at one point or another. It likely won't be the last time it happens to you.
I think so. I once got my period during sex. Early on in our relationship too. I didn't notice till I went to the bathroom afterwards. When I came back I was like we need to talk, he was like "I already know. Sheets are changed so I'm gonna go shower, wanna come with me?" Things happen. Men need to understand that women have no control over our bodies in that situation