I've been single for a year now, since then I've only been on a few dates and dated someone for a month but didn't work out. I do make the effort to go out with friends most weekends but I don't seem to get much attention from guys. I would love to be going out on more dates without using apps like tinder. What should I do to get more attention and go on more dates?
Most Helpful Guy
I am a firm believer in just being yourself - You want to meet the right guy who likes you for who you are - You are very pretty so looks aren't a problem - When you are out and about, how confident are you, you could seem shy - While staying away from dating apps there is an online route, you could go on forums like this and maybe through your activity on the forums meet someone you connect with - You could enjoy yourself but get a bonus of meeting someone - At 20, I inclined to say be patient you never know what is around next corner.0
Most Helpful Girl
By asking people out yourself. It's amazing what will happen when you take initiative to get what you want instead of futilely hoping that guys will just approach you cold. Things aren't like the old days, now there is the whole #creepstigma and a greater fear of rejection that guys have (as they have had the unfair pressure to always approach) that fewer and fewer guys are willing to take the risk unless they are positive that you two have chemistry. So, if you want something, put on your big girl panties and go and get it yourself. Plain and simple. Otherwise, ya can't complain.2