My very serious boyfriend and i are 28 and 24 and have been dating almost 5 years but he still puts his family of origin before me. Yes i know people say family comes before a boyfriend girlfriend relationship but i think that applies to the start of a relationship not two grown adults who established that they know they want to get married and start a life together and after almost 5 years shouldn't he consider me as a first priority or at the very least equal to his family? How can i talk to him about not putting me as second best to his family and viewing me as family?
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Straight out tell him how you feel. Otherwise get used to it.
P. s. when he gets pissy about this which he will and come up with an example of when he doesn't or gives reasons why he should. Big sign that it won't change0
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