Me and my boyfriend are going through a rough patch in our relationship right now. We have been together for almost 3 years and he feels as though our relationship isn't exciting or passionate anymore. I'm trying to be understanding since I have had moments where I felt this way as well but I know relationships have their lulls and highs, and I also know once you're out of the honey moon phase things settle down a bit. But then he told me that lately he feels like its a chore to see me or talk to me, and I felt like that part really hurt because honestly we don't talk that much as it is since he works like 70 hours a week. Even though things sometimes aren't very exciting, I have always felt like I still wanted to talk to him or see him if I could. Is it wrong for me to be taking this so hard? Shouldn't you want to always talk/see your partner when you have the opportunity?
You're young, this is how relationships go.
Don't be too attached to the idea that this one is going to last forever, it might be time to call it a day and move on.
It's just part of growing up, so much changes in your late teens and early/mid 20's, expecting things to stay how they were at one point in time is unreasonable and unrealistic.
It shouldn't be a chore to talk with or be with your partner. If it is, then that's a sign it might not be the right fit.
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