Me and my boyfriend are going through a rough patch in our relationship right now. We have been together for almost 3 years and he feels as though our relationship isn't exciting or passionate anymore. I'm trying to be understanding since I have had moments where I felt this way as well but I know relationships have their lulls and highs, and I also know once you're out of the honey moon phase things settle down a bit. But then he told me that lately he feels like its a chore to see me or talk to me, and I felt like that part really hurt because honestly we don't talk that much as it is since he works like 70 hours a week. Even though things sometimes aren't very exciting, I have always felt like I still wanted to talk to him or see him if I could. Is it wrong for me to be taking this so hard? Shouldn't you want to always talk/see your partner when you have the opportunity?
When talking to partner feels like a "chore"?
What Guys Said 1
You're young, this is how relationships go.
Don't be too attached to the idea that this one is going to last forever, it might be time to call it a day and move on.
It's just part of growing up, so much changes in your late teens and early/mid 20's, expecting things to stay how they were at one point in time is unreasonable and unrealistic.
It shouldn't be a chore to talk with or be with your partner. If it is, then that's a sign it might not be the right fit.1
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