if they have headphones and talk to nobody there then prolly leave em alone cuz they mean business. I've never been approached at the gym but i always hear rumors from my friend at the desk that girls were talking about me. i wear headphones but talk to literally everyone i possibly can or at least say hi. i tend not to meet girls cuz theyre always wearing headphones and dont seem interested in talking which i totally understand. but its definitely fine i would target the more social guys tho so you dont accidentally bug someone. but honestly its more of a compliment so i would worry about offending or bugging anyone
I don't understand why girls worry so much about looking as disinterested in someone as they do. It's like they don't want us to know they like us. Looking "desperate" means looking like you are actually interested in us. Which makes it so much easier for everybody. Why are you making it so hard for yourself?
Unless you do it in a ridiculous way, I don't think so. Most guys are probably not stressing out about how "desperate" you are anyway, but just taking some initiative and starting a friendly conversation would be totally socially acceptable.
There seems to be a double standard when it comes to the gym... I think for a girl it is a little different, most guys would be okay with that, but for a guy to hit on girls in the gym, I think it is frowned upon!
I am sure the owners of the gym don't want anything like that going on bc they are worried about guys scaring their women clientele away.
It is all about going to where your kind of man hangs out. If you want a party boy, you go to the club. If you want a nerdy boy, you go to a comic convention. If you want a religious guy, go to a church. And if you want a fit guy, go to the gym. There is nothing wrong in narrowing down the location of the type of guy you want.
Calm yourself woman! Yes it's ok place to flirt, but just don't overdo it. People are usually there to train and not to socialize so pick the right moment for it. And respect if the guy is not responding on your flirts, because he might be taken or just focusing on his workout.
i see mostly old woman eyeing me up lmao there ain't no girls my age that go to the gym
Yes very much so. You're there to get tough and get buff not to oggle other people. If you're not there for that then fuck off and stop trying to distract people who are by flirting with them. Also the fact you referred to them as "hottest in there shorts and tanks"; treat them like meat or an object some more why don't you. You sound ridiculously thirsty though, most men don't find that attractive and the ones that do are just going to use you.