I tried dating after my divorce and at least four different guys that I started to get interested in turned out to already have relationships but wanted to see me on the side. Of course I refused and stopped talking to them.
I can't for figure out what it is that makes me the kind of woman that men want to have an affair with. I'm not promiscuous, nor particularly sexy. I'm responsible, smart, and I don't look for validation from men. I just want to find a nice guy to spend time with.
I don't get too emotional and try to keep things matter-of-fact until I know them better. I don't do anything that I think would be "leading" or "tempting". I'm careful how I dress. I'm completely puzzled.
(okay, not quite like this but you get the idea)
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if a guy want to cheat he is going to cheat, there is no type, it is a simple case of attraction, a guy is not going to cheat with someone he is not attracted to, so it is just a simple case that you are an attractive woman, it just happens that you were unlucky with the guys you have met1