Well if you're in my postion, feel free to leave your opinion on the matter. it seems to me and no matter how i try to will through the pain of rejection. that almost every woman talks to me then completly ignores and blocks me. what am I doing wrong?
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Your inherent fear probably plays out during your interaction with girls. In short, they can feel your awkwardness and lack of confidence. Although you make an effort to talk to them, the last time I checked, it takes a lot more than that to get a girl interested.
While guys primarily place physical attractiveness at the top of priorities when finding a girl, this is not true for women. Showing a girl that you are confident, and that you can take care of everything life throws at you is by far the most attractive quality they see in a man. Girls want to know that her man will squish that giant spider, fix her flat tire or the broken faucet, and decide when and where the date and dinner will be.
If you are stuttering and quivering in your panties as you try to talk to a girl, the first impression you give is that you're a pansy who can't even take care of yourself, much less her.
That is the fatal flaw of most shy men, and the primary reason why they have poor success in finding a relationship. Not because they are unattractive or don't have money. There are lots of ugly, obese American men who can find a partner because they are confident.0
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