So I've been seeing this guy, who, off the bat told me that he was seeing someone else as well but it's casual. He is testing the waters. I was all for that, no problem. I've done it, too.
We've hung out a few times and it's wonderful. We have such a connection and always have a blast when we're together. Anyway, I'm really starting to get feelings for him but I'm trying to keep my distance at the same time because he is still seeing this other girl. So the problem I'm having is that we rarely text and if we hang out, it's usually me asking him when he's free. He has 3 jobs so he's busy, but in the back of my head I can't help but wonder if he's picking her over me. Ya know?
Also, if I don't contact him is there a chance he'll be like "man, I miss her" and contact me? Or will he think I don't care anymore and move on? I'm at such a standstill because I really do like this guy and I want nothing more than for this to work out. I want to keep pursuing, but I don't want it to be one sided and at the same time, I want to give up.
Thanks in advance for the advice. Please have genuine answers; nothing rude.
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If you text him more then intiate more then I feel the routine has to continue. If you stop talking to him maybe he might message you back. But it's hard to tell since he is so busy working.
Also he is keeping his options open with the other girl. But at least he was honest about it. I sense something could be their for you and him. You both hit it off good. If you want it to work don't give up yet. I think if you stop texting and talking to him that he might loose interest.1
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