I started dating this girl and she has loads and loads of sexy lignite, types of never even seen before. It's an everyday wear for her, was wondering do women do this to show men or is it for themselves?
- For men29% (28)49% (25)36% (53)Vote
- For themselves71% (68)51% (26)64% (94)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
Dude, if it was for men, then 99.999% of women would have the decency to get rid of the lingerie they wore for their previous boyfriends.
I mean, srsly, do you not know how women work? We get rid of ANYTHING associated with old relationships, even if it's associated in some totally stupid-ass completely tangential way.
So... there's yr answer.
Even if she happened to have some of that lingerie during her previous relationship (s), she makes NO mental associations between the lingerie and those relationships.
If she did, she'd have gotten the hell rid of it, already.
Come on now.
Yr next assignment is to relax and actually ENJOY yr woman's body, without fretting excessively about her possible ulterior motives for putting stuff on it. <3
Most Helpful Guy
I think directly they think its for themselves, but indirectly its for other people.
They say it makes them "feel sexy" but what does it mean to "feel sexy" , why does wearing something like that make them feel sexy? and why is feeling sexy so important?
Unless they are sexually arroused by themselves, the whole idea of sexiness is that you are considered sexually desirable/stimulating to -other people-.