Just curious as to guys and girls experiences on the famous NC rule, especially if you were the dumpee? Did it work? Did your ex get back in touch? What did you learn from it? My ex tried to call me x3 times 2 weeks ago and left a couple of messages... I have yet to reply as im still pretty angry. i went NC almost 2 months ago. how do people feel about NC? Do you believe it works?
Happy Valentine's day everyone 😘😘 The Ex tried to call me twice today... I'm feeling good lol x
I have to write a lot of papers and before you introduce an abbreviation such as NC you need to use the full phrase at least once. I did not have to google possible translations for "NC" just to answer your question.
No contact is the best thing to do after break up. Keeping in touch or seeing the other person only makes things harder and increases the possibility of relapsing.
It didn't really work, we talked a little bit because I really wanted to get back together and I knew if we started hanging out it would either make it clear that we were or we wouldn't. I think you should either decide to remove the person from your life or try to get them back because there's no point in torturing yourself and seeing "who breaks the nc first" relationships aren't games. It shouldn't give them a "chance" to miss you because if they did they'd miss you asap
The no contact rule is meant to help you heal, recover, and move forward without being distracted by your ex's presence. Not as a means for you to covertly manipulate someone and punish them with silence knowing that you have full intentions of keeping them in your life.