It seems so silly to me that and a lot of people tell me I am attractive... I ger hit on by dozens of guys whenever I go out to the bar or club or anywhere but yet I can't land a boyfriend. In fact i was a virgin up until I was 22 and I felt so silly being one still I lost it to a random one night stand (who ended up dating me for a few months but i wasn't feeling it)
i just kinda want to what love feels like and i don't feel like I will find that ever. Also oh god how ironic I am feeling these things close to valentines day not cliche at all.
Most Helpful Guy
I'm in the same boat as you and I'm 26. I've dated, had sex, etc but no long term relationship or official girlfriend even. I guess it's better than nothing but it feels like I'm in a constant revolving door of dates and it's nothing to brag about.
My appearance isn't the issue as I get told I'm cute and funny but it's like I'll get all these dates but then the girl will either ignore me or just give generic replies, never initiate if they respond. And the worst part is I don't know what I'm doing that's making them flake.0
Most Helpful Girl
Guys hit on you all the time in the bar and the club means that you must be attractive. Don't be questioning that. I think though its about meeting a guy in the right place. These guys you are meeting in a club or a bar are not going to be people you end up in a relationship with. Its possible, but less likely. They are looking to have a one night stand and thats why they hit on you. I just want to mention that I am in the same boat that I am curious as to what love feels like, but that is separate from being in a long term relationship. I had a boyfriend for a year and was not in love with him and he was not in love with me either, both of us didn't have the guts to break it off until much later. It was dumb. I also had a boyfriend for a month and we were not in love. I didn't have sex with either of them. Sex, love, and being in a relationship are all separate entities. You can be in love with someone, they can be in love with you and not be in a relationship for certain reasons. You can have sex and not be in a relationship. You can have sex in a relationship with no love. Having all three I think is what you want and thats what many of us all seek. Its all about looking in the right place for it and sometimes you can't try or do anything and it just happens. It usually happens when you least expect. A guy will ask you out, you date, fall in love, have sex, wedding or possibly could be in a different order. Just live each day in moment and focus on being you. Perhaps you give off the vibe of being desperate or you could also be too picky. Just think about all these things :)0