Am I way in over my head? I am super petite, weighing in at 96 lbs and he is more than twice my weight as you can imagine. I really like him though, and we are so comfortable together. I fell in love with his mind and personality pretty much. I just worry about the physical compatibility part. Sometimes I don't even know why he likes me, since I feel so "unwomanly" next to him.
Anybody ever had a similar experience? Am I right to be concerned, or should I just go for it? We are going on our second date on Valentine's Day :P
Thank you all for answering. I feel like deep down I've already made my decision, but I was just looking for assurance. I don't care how we look to other people; I know I want to make this work because I seriously like this guy :)
I'm 6"5 and my girl is 5"2 I almost thought this was about me except my girl and I have been dating for almost 3 years. I love her. I feel like she's so precious and I'm her protector. She's completely worthy of me and I love how she's so cute
Once your laid down in bed it evens out a lot. The distance between mouth to genitals is much more simular. Most of the height difference is in the legs. I've dated so shorter women but iam only 6"2". It's only ever an issue for the shorter person. Small nose are more juicy lol. Go for it.
You will have some challenges, but I am sure you will manage around them just fine. As long as you find each other attractive, it really shouldn't matter. People will give you the occasional "what the FUCK" look, but avoiding these looks is almost impossible in any case.
Don't let this be an issue, and why he likes you is none of your business. xD Good luck on your date.
Don't worry about it! My brother's a full foot taller than his wife, and it's never been a problem, why would it? Yes, they look a bit funny together... but then, his daughter (my niece) just started walking, and she's quite happy walking through the mall reaching up to hold one of our fingers for balance: we're a good five feet taller than her, and it works just fine.
Well, he definitely will fill up your vajayjay, but you actually will have to worry about childbirth. Almost certainly, most babies you have - especially if they are boys - will be delivered by C-section.
Your the one dating him. Im sure most people dont really care. If your ok with it cool. If your not, do something about it. Random strangers walking by most likely are mindingt heir own business and not give a single fuck.
From what I've heard, guys dig short girls. I'm 5'0" and I've been with men up to 6'3" tall. You will eventually get used to it and will forget the height difference. To be honest, its actually pretty cute. The only problem is trying to hug or kiss. But it isn't such a big deal... we're all the same height when lying down aren't we?
I'm 4'9, and I feel your struggle with every guy I like! My current crush is 6'2. However, I try not to focus on how it looks. If we really like/love each other, we make it work. I've heard some of my gal pals (who stand at 5'0) have gotten remarks about their 1 ft+ height difference relationship, where people thought the boyfriend was a brother or even father. I just laugh it off and ignore it. Go for it though! Plus, the hugs you receive from tall guys are A plus.