Of any sort.
My only one is that I need to get over the hang up that I feel like I'm lying to dudes on tinder about what I look like even though I clearly state that I'm not skinny and have a full body selfie in my pictures.
Cause I'm pretty sure that's what's majorly keeping me from ever meeting up with the ones who want to meet up.
I'm just afraid that they're going to be like... mega disappointed or super angry when we meet up so I always think of reasons not to.
anyways! Now that I've made myself vulnerable... what are your hang ups?
Most Helpful Guy
I think you and I are similar but also have a lot in common with so many other people. In my case I feel the way I describe my personality on dating sites/apps is too negative and people tell me that I have to lighten up but I am afraid of giving wrong impression and people don't think I am genuine which is the number one thing I want to get across.
Now your situation
(1) As you say you describe yourself and provide plenty of pictures so you can't be said to be hiding anything.
(2) I have seen lots of your pics on this site and through your posts I know your height and weight. Lets start with the fact you can carry those numbers very well and look healthy with a normal, average bodyshape. What else have you got, you have beautiful brown eyes and great new purple hair. Also from your posts I always found your personality very engaging and funny.
(3) To be totally honest I don't think you have anything to fear in meeting new people. You are always open with them but the fact is you have nothing to hide, you would be a very nice date to have. I think the main person you have to convince Is yourself. Plenty of guys would be delighted to meet you.0
Most Helpful Girl
They are not going to be disappointed. It's not like you're fooling them. You already mentioned that you clearly state them the fact that you're not skinny. And if someone doesn't end up liking you, who the fuck cares? No one will blame you since it was their decision to go out with you.
Just remember! You don't owe anything to anyone.
I think all your worries come from poor self-esteem, which is a pity since you're actually good-looking.0