Does anyone else find it immediate turn off if a guy brings up sex when you just met him?
Personally I have never met a guy who was interested in a relationship who brought up sex immediately the first time we met
In my head I'm thinking this guy is a fuckboy who only wants to have sex and will probably try to booty call me later down the road and I immediately put them on my shit list
Updates: Most Helpful Guy
Yeah that would be a red flag if your looking for a relationship since he is probably just looking for a hook up if he brings that up right away, I've never done that
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah, I'll probably assume he's a thirsty dog who's looking for the next hole to get his d*ck wet. Instant turn off.
What Guys Said 8
fuckboy isn´t a word. stop using it. we have a word for what you´re trying to say. it´s "player"...
what´s the problem with talking about sex? or did he like try to talk you into having sex on the first date?
I don't think I have ever talked about sex with a girl I'm going to have sex with. It just happens. I don't even really see the need to talk about it because it's going to happen anyway. In my mind, if you talk about sex with a girl. Especially on the first date, you probably aren't going to get any.
What's wrong with talking about sex? Why do you make it seem like a negative thing for a guy to want to be sexual?
Sounds like you're the one who has a problem. If I were you I'd find a way to accept sex as a normal thing that shouldn't be such a big fucking deal.
Some aren't looking for a relationship. In fact more men are opting out of relationships. So if sex is not an option, relationship is not desired, then it just leaves friendship...
Hey, wanna fuck? Fuck, I got shitlisted, didn't I...
I want a girl who's not intimidated by sex. Girls who say they don't want sex end up having the most sex. I think it's quite hypocritical.
Not everyone is into a relationship
How can you blame someone for that, though?
Life is short...
What Girls Said 4
Of course it does, that just shows he's not looking for anything beyond a booty call. It makes you feel like a cheap item tbh, even if it's just a passing comment that usually sends off warning bells in my head. No sex talk unless you and I are close like Bruh!
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