I'm a little older than her and she just turned 21. I like to drink ocassionally and pick up a variety pack ocassinally to try differint IPA's and relax. I used to go out all the time when I first turned 21 and it was a fun time but I got tired of the hangover, lack of sleep, and learned to drink for the flavor and stopped going to the bar or house parties. Like I said I'm 2 years older and she wants me to go to this valentines day party and go dancing with her (literally just grinding) and relive my partying days. I don't want to but feel almost forced I'd rather spend the night at one of our homes and relax.
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Well, you don't have to do anything you don't want to do. But If u wanted to go for ur girlfriend, then maybe u guys could just go for a couple of hours. Or just encourage her to go with friends. However, I don't know if there will be a bunch of couples there, then she may really want u to go. I mean it's sound like fun & a chance to go out for the night with ur girl. And then u guys can come back home later & chill :) Talk to ur girlfriend about how u feel. :)0