I've been single for a very long time now that i've got accustumed to it. Sometimes i want to get a girlfirend, but looking back at my failed attempts to get one makes me realize i'm not great at this whole dating thing so, i've given up. I've also started to accept my single status and start finding things that make me happy. My family members however, have repeatedly encouraged me to still keep trying because according to them (i'm too good looking to not have a gf) lol , but I don't know if i want to do that anymore. Getting rejected a lot has seriously destroyed my confidence.
Most Helpful Girl
Nope, you definitely don't need one to be happy. My partner does make me very happy obviously but I don't think I'd be unable to find happiness if I didn't have him.0
Most Helpful Guy
Maybe you are approaching the whole asking them out thing wrong. First mistake guys make is they just cold approach a girl and then quickly ask if they want to go out. In a situation like this the girl is probably caught off guard and becomes nervous and wonders what the hell the guy is up to. Even if the guy is really hot she might still say no simply because she felt uncomfortable and she doesn't really know the person. It's much more likely they will accept the offer if they have flirted with you beforehand.
So if there is a girl who may interest you. Don't just walk up to her and ask her out. You need to flirt first and preferably let her flirt before you do. That way it seems like she is interested in you and not the other way around. I know that seems silly but girls like the idea that they chased the guy instead of the guy chasing them.
Another point is a lot of guys act really nervous when they talk to her. A little nervousness is understandable but if you are really nervous and it's really noticeable, it can be a huge turn off for her. It makes her feel nervous too and uncomfortable and you don't want that. Also it makes you look weak and not confident and probably not good with women. If you show confidence it makes you appear strong and good with women believe it or not. Women think that confident men will be better in bed.
If you are doing online dating then this is another whole ballgame. I wouldn't recommend it. Don't give up mate since once you find someone special you will not regret it and what's life for really if you can't share it with someone.1