I'm pretty particular with dating and I've only met and actually gone out with a few guys I was interested in dating and possibly further and every time they have all shied away when I ask them "where we are going". Am I too aggressive? How should I act and what should I do so that I dont appear as aggressive and will make the guy I like want to commit to me?
Most Helpful Guy
So what do you mean when you say you're "pretty particular" are you talking exclusively looks?0
Most Helpful Girl
So you ask "where are we going?" before you say yes? If that's correct, THAT is where you are going wrong. It takes courage to ask someone out. Cut the guy some slack and just say yes. Ask what day/time and if he will pick you up or you will meet. If the day comes and he hasn't told you where you are going ask how to dress. If he still hasn't told you when he picked you up then ask so you can tell your "worried" roommate where you will be and when to expect you home. YES, set boundaries so he knows if you are expecting to come home or you could be up for spending the night.
Sorry if I misunderstood any of your post.0
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