Okay so I'm meeting my boyfriend of 1 month for the first time tomorrow and I'm worrried he's not going to like me because of my body. I looked at his exs and they were ll very skinny and tbh I'm not that skinny... I'm kinda thick and I dont think he knows. What if he like sees me and bails on me or something? Or is here some outfits that make you look skinnier? Or do I just tell him I can't meet up? I'm really nervous because I really like him but I don't know...
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there's only one way to find out~ go meet him and, if he judges you based solely on your weight, it says more about him than it does about you.
my other half and i met online, and we talked for a month before meeting in-person. i was nervous~ i wondered if our awesome chemistry would translate into real time, if he'd judge me based on my size or think i'm super-awkward irl... but we ended up hitting it off and spent the entire day together.
(spoiler alert: over a year later, we're still together)
in short: go have fun, but be sure to have an escape route planned (just in case). good luck!