A guy who seems pretty great and pretty serious has been talking to me for months. Everyone thinks there is something going on. Thing is, 3 or more times he's brought up not having a lot of money. "I'm poor right now" "I'm broke right now" stuff like that.
So question is- does your financial situation change how you feel about getting with a girl? Or just an excuse to not do it?
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Of course it changes things , a girl will expect dates from me, she will expect gifts, she will expect me to be the man and i want to be the man but if i am poor i can't provide most of that or it will be very limited so we think twice about getting with a girl, why get with a girl, not satisfy her then get dumped? its better to wait for the right time when we have the money right? some girls dont care about money that much but evnetually they all do so unless you have a plan to make some money later either by finished your education and finding a good job or starting a business most women won't stick around for long , expect of the emotionally unstable ones, and being a kinda poor guy... that sucks i have to admit but this is life.3