- GuysVote A
- GirlsVote B
- Whoever initiated itVote C
- Split the billVote D
Most Helpful Guy
The person who asked the other person out pays. Simple as that.
If a girl asks me out, we set a date and she picks a place and then as the bill comes around she's expecting me to foot all of it? I'd probably lose interest right there. It would come off as incredibly spoiled and arrogant.
It doesn't really have anything to do with being cheap either, I don't mind paying for a dinner or two. Quite the contrary, I enjoy feeling generous and tend to insist once or twice that I pay the entire thing if I took her out.
However paying for someone else when they take you out is just awkward.
Splitting is always fine and a safe default for girls. Guys might, sometimes get some grief for it. Honestly if you expect someone to pay the bill for you you're ruining the good gesture it is meant to be.
This would be my opinion on both genders.1
Most Helpful Girl
Whoever asked should pay.
I asked my boyfriend out. I picked him up. I paid for dinner.
That's how that goes.1