No, more because he would be willing to let me hit him than because he cheated. The cheating is awful but for some reason I'd be more insulted by the fact that he thought I was aggressive and cruel enough to think that abusing him was acceptable in any circumstances.
No i would never forgive a betrayal.! I would be devastated , but i would turn my back on him and cut all ties. I have boundaries that i never allow anyone to cross. So i wouldn't lower my standards just because he decided he made he wrong choice. Plus, i would never be able to trust him again. How can you give someone a second chance and trust them, after they have already given you one good reason not to trust them again
HAHAHAHA no! I'm not an idiot and I'm not so desperate that I would settle for a nasty cheater. I could easily find a faithful guy so why would I ever settle for a lying cheater. And who knows what kind of diseases a nasty cheating liar like that could have! I would not put my health (mental or physical) in danger for someone who didn't even care enough about me to stay faithful. I would cut him off completely he wouldn't even have the chance to beg like a pathetic loser, he'd be gone!
I was stupid. I did take my ex back after he cheated the first time (which was the beginning of last year)... but after the second time that was enough for me. He said the same things as you said above. Still didn't make a difference. He still cheated after that anyways. So no.
I tried for my son's dad after I found out he cheated at the end of my pregnancy and so on, but I could never get over it so I broke up with him. now since then I would never go back to someone who cheated.
Maybe I am pathetic or somewhat dumb, but if he was like apologizing in a way he never had done it before, and I can see some sincerity backs him up, shouldn't I be the bigger person? but well, with lots and lots of renewed conditions in the relationship.
wtf kinda question is this... cheating is awful, and so is abuse. "Let you hit him", if anything he's less of a man for that than the cheating. The cheater involved here needs to cut his losses. he screwed up, its over. If the girl takes him back she must hate herself.