is that your priority? his wealth and his appearance?
I know you're anon, so there's potential this is troll - and I won't lay into you for your shallow statement -
however, I think you should reflect on yourself. reflect on what you have to offer, why you want these things in a SO and longterm - how do you see the two of you growing together with those factors being the primary focus of what you're looking for the relationship.
Pick 2 - handsome and looks, got those so far.
now cover a few of the other factors you did not choose. do you value these JUST as much, or not even close? Don't tell me this, this is all something for you to think about. Really decide hard, because you can always find someone well off - but that rapport and chemistry isn't just formed because you see the dollar signs.
Unless you're a cheater or something and have an elaborate scheme worked out, if thats the case, Im jealous and wish I was a female.
Nothing wrong with it, if you have sexy body, nice looks and he gets that in exchange of providing you with your need s, it's totally fine.. And if you might get in business with him help him make profits and take equal share then you are not a gold digger, but if you keep chewing on his credit card until he goes bankrupt then you know...
Everyone got their preferences ofc but you doesn't seem to care about love as much as you care about money. Meaning you are for sale. Nothing wrong about it, just that your dignity is really low. Other people can live with it, if you can as well, good for you!
Yea if you don't have any money yourself or close to the amount that he has? You know what that makes you right? GOLD DIGGER! But if your cool with the whole lack of morals and gold digger title then go for it!
Money's not everything, Although That's about as stupid as some of these idiotic wedding ring commercials you hear on the radio and tv. If she's saying yes because of the ring you got her. Then she's saying yes for the wrong reasons.
No I mean you have your wants however if thats all you want it's shallow. It's not unheard of for a woman to want to have a man with a good job, money stresses can really put a burden on relationships.
Just so long as you don't only love him for his money and use him. I want a guy that earns well too and is also good looking, but I would never just love him for his money and use him to get whatever I wanted. There's nothing bad in wanting to be secure and financially stable in life. We all want it. So you're not a gold digger.
Its not bad that you want to date rich. I mean who doesn't want to find some hot rich significant other? But it is bad if that's all you care about. In my opinion you should look for someone with an amazing personality and fall in love with them regardless of what's in their bank account (well to a degree). As long as you don't let the desire to be with someone rich overpower finding a good, honest, person I don't think its bad
It's not bad, but women who date rich guys have to put up with a lot of crap unless the guy is super-nice and well-grounded. They know you like them for their money, so that makes them both distrust your feelings and feel like they are your boss. If you're not wealthy or well-connected, his family and friends are likely to treat you like a gold-digger. So just be prepared.