Ive known her for about 4 years and met her online. We have been talking forever but I have only talked to her in person once. I have let her known my feelings for her on a few occasions and the most I got out of her was "I don't know if I like you back". I don't know what to do. Every time I think I can get through to her, it seems like its a lost cause as I go back into the friend zone. We've been talking on the phone a few times a week for months and months but nothing seems to come out of it. She calls me during her breaks at work and whatnot but when it comes down to actually chilling, she usually has an excuse and the weirdest part about it is that we go to the same university, yet she never wants to see me. Does she like me or not; on one hand she talks to me constantly and usually messages me first on msn and also calls me during her breaks at work. On the other hand, she seems totally fine with never chilling with me. ?
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Well it seems like you are definitely in the friend zone with her. If I were to give you some advice I would say do not respond to some of the IMs if she trys to talk to you first. Also do not make yourself so readily available. I have fallen into the same situation with a couple of girls and the more you want to hang out with them the more excuses they have. Do what I stated above. You never really stated it but if your a "nice guy" like I am check out my questions some guys and girls clarified it to me. Be confident in front of her, talk to other girls, and don't make yourself readily available. I hope that helps0