How do I ask him to be exclusive?

I've been sleeping with a guy for about 4 months and we've never actually had a "relationship" talk. We know each other from school and have known each other for a few years. We slept together the first time we hung out just us. I'm afraid I moved too fast and he's thinking this is just a friends with benefits situation, but I don't think I can keep sleeping with him unless we're exclusive. How do I bring this up without making a fool of myself, or scare him off?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Just ask him straight up... 'can we be exclusive?'

    You won't make a fool of yourself, it's a perfectly legitimate question. I suppose there's a slim chance that you'll scare him off. If that's the case, wouldn't you find out sooner than later- that he's not interested in being exclusive?

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What Guys Said 2

  • "What do you think of us being exclusive?"

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  • "I've been sleeping with a guy for about 4 months…"

    🙄

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What Girls Said 1

  • "I have feelings for you. I'd like us to be exclusive. What do you think?"

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