Do I ask her out to date still and tell her upfront that I am going through a lot (grandma died, not getting along with parents, ambitious ideas that require a lot of time) so she seems to really like me. ANd i actually PUT off asking her out. I should have at the part, but i didn't. But now i want to just take her on a date to see how things are. How serious does she want a relationship to get? Do I ask her this? I may be better at feelings than her (atleast over text so im not really sure). This is my first encoutner with girls and im in college and a lot of shit happening around me so I am really just at a loss here :(*. Just let me know what I should do.
Our friend group wants us to get together, we are actually a good match, we both flirted a bit, but this may be a terrible time in my life right now?
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No one can tell you how serious she wants the relationship to get. If you want to take her out, take her out. Be clear that you like her but that you're not ready to do more than date since there is a lot going on in your life right now.0
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