I don't like it when a guy pays the bill because I know most guys would think that if they pay, they can control girls.
They would think they are allowed to have sex and if a girl turned down the offer they would be like "I pay the bill though."
So I always try to spilt the bill but most of the times guys pay. They are like don't care about the bill.
But I'm like I know you don't want to pay though.. but guys usually have strong prides so they probably want to show their superiority by displaying that they can afford it and I don't want to hurt their prides.
So how can I spilt the bill? And so you guys genuinely like paying or you pay because you have some intentions to have sex?
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If you are able to pay for it then just smile and tell the guy, 'Thank you for the offer, but I'd prefer to pay for myself.' - It tells the guy you can take care of yourself.
I hate women who expect me to pay, I outright refuse to, and if they take offence to that, then they know where the door is.
I will occasionally pay for my girlfriend (and she occasionally pays for me), but never a first date or anything like that. Some guys just like to be nice, but I think that a lot of them think they are 'owed' something, which is ridiculous. It's not about pride, if they think they are owed anything, then just go elsewhere, you don't want to be involved with someone like that.0