Okay, I'm always very cautious bringing up anything about race, because the last thing I want to start is a racial battle, but this is something I am very curious about. I live in an area with lots of races, and yet it seems like a large proportion of the guys who are interested in me are African-American. I did not want to ask this on social media but I couldn't find any info online. Not to brag, but to give perspective... I am beautiful, short and curvy (but not overweight) I am very kind and lively, I have a big smile, porcelain white skin and... a perfect, round rear end. (Yeesh this is so awkward😖) Not many of these guys are just looking at my body though, most are really interested in me as a person and want to date me. Why is this? Anyone have any ideas? To make myself clear, I have absolutely no problem with it! Most have been really sweet, respectable, cute guys, I'm just curious why they are the majority of my admirers...
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I can tell you right now that just from myself and many of my black friends - generally since we dont grow up with a father, our mother has to handle both roles - instilling ferocity and love upon us at the same time.
We typically gravitate towards a soft women who exudes very happy qualities because it reminds us of our mother - how strong she had to be, yet how happy she was with us.
I can't really explain it - Im not trying to generalize, just give a point of view some of them may have. A lot of single parent children really yearn to find someone who permeates those traits because we know how unshakeable they are because we've lived with them all our lives.
obviously on the flipside, some could be into your body and you may just be unaware -
When I used to live in a very poor environment, I never noticed a lot of the qualities I mentioned there because it was heavily about gangs, race, and the ego - so a lot of these traits I didn't really start seeing until I began associating with people who were not 'about that life' both of black and other racial backgrounds.
I rambled a bit, but hope that kinda helps? lol2