Do you think less of women who sleeps around? Would you date a girl who who has banged a lot of guys?
Most Helpful Girl
No, I do not think a female's number of sexual partners matters more than a male's. Nor do I think it's becoming or very evolved to decide it's acceptable and tolerable for a man to have a large sexual number, but completely unacceptable and wrong for a woman to.
I try not to think less of people who sleep around as unique individuals yet can't help but think less of them as a committed partner. People who bang a lot of other people tend to either have self-esteem/self-worth issues, narcissism issues, a constant desire for attention, unresolved emotional baggage, and/or commitment issues. If none of those are factors, then there's the basic possibility that they are reckless, careless, tactless, inconsiderate, tacky, and sleazy in order to get some azz. All of the above are problematic and those aren't a set of problems I am interested in dealing with. First of all, the odds are that they didn't see paperwork to confirm each and every one of their partners did not have an STD. INSTANT TURNOFF. Sleeping with random people you do not know, not knowing how many sexual experiences they expose themselves to on a regular basis, increases your chance of getting a nasty, painful, pustule, blistering STD and that is one form of irresponsibility that I will not accept. Basically: too many issues to deal with. Life is too short and I'm too young to be burdened by all that.1
Most Helpful Guy
It shouldn't but to me it kinda does. I don't want to be with someone who willingly open her legs to half the city.3