In the beginning of the relationship of me & my ex (which we dated for 1 month) he really liked me like SOOO much but I didn't like him so much. He broke up with me through text bc I didn't show i didn't care bout him which I really didn't. So after we broke up i started to have a thing with one of his friends but I didn't know At first they were friends... After awhile me & my ex started to flirt again & damn this time i fell for him. So i cut off his friend so I could get back with him. My ex told one of his friends that he couldn't get over me & loved me & all this. So one weekend he was like "imma ask u out during the week" so i was so happy & me & him were already basically looking like we were dating but he never asked me out so i was like wtf 🤔 So i asked him what are we.. & he ended up saying he doesn't know what he wants.. So i cut him off bc I want to be more than just having a thing.. So while we stopped talking I was just hurt & mad bc he just changed up so quick. The next week i went to hang out with two of my friends & my ex came along.. We ended up kissing & he told me that he loved me. Later that day i was expecting a text from him but he never texted me.. so on that weekend I ended up texting him to fix this & see what he really wants. He confused me so much bc he told me he doesn't want a relationship but wants me & him to be something more than friends & that he loves me so much but later on he says he wants to be friends.. Whenever i ask him he just seems so unsure of what he wants why is that? Should i keep talking to him to see what goes from there? Or cut him off completely? Even tho I don't want to 😢
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He does not love you. He does not want a relationship. He is using you.
Sorry to be blunt, but if a guy loves a girl... he wouldn't treat her like this at all. It appears to be a game to him and by saying the word love, he keeps you under his control and at his beck and call. Move on, relationships shouldn't be this much hard work.0