Alright, so I've been out of high school for almost five years now. Yep, I'm old. Anyways, like a lot of people, I have old high school "friends" on my facebook that I never ever spoke to that I generally forgot of. Now, once I started posting pictures from instagram, I guess it came out that I no longer looked like a boy, and a ton of high school guys came out of the woodworks trying to hit me up.
There is one guy in particular that I spoke to personally once, and saw occasionally at school. He came to a party, spoke to me briefly, and five years later... silence. Then, a week ago, he pops up on my facebook trying to initiate a relationship with me. He immediately wanted me to travel to where he lived (he lives like 2 hours away) was very quick to make his interest known and is insisting on skyping with me. He seemed to get infatuated fast and while there's nothing WRONG with him and he's sweet... I'm not feeling anything that he's feeling. I am wondering if its because he didn't care about me for five years until suddenly out of no where.
So my question is literally: what are your thoughts on the situation? It's only been a week and he's talking about splitting a ticket for me to bus down there and "wanting to get to know me better ;)"
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If I was ever that insistent I'd pay for the whole ticket myself because that's a huge risk. Five year silence to a guy you only talked to once. That's virtually no different then a complete and total stranger and you're traveling a bit of a distance to see him. There's nothing wrong with a guy striking up a conversation with you because you're hot (that's how most relationships usually begin) but you used to be in high school together and he's had 5 years to talk and only does it once he realized you don't look liked a boy and deems you hot enough so that's a little telling of his (and those other guys who only suddenly started talking to you personalities). It also asks the question why is he going after a girl he doesn't know so far away and not pursue a girl near him? I personally wouldn't do it. But that's just my suggestion.0