Me and my boyfriend have sex every time we see etchother, even though I don't want to. he says the only reason he does it is because you want to show that he love me and that's the only way you could show me that he loves me. but I'm afraid that the relationship might just turn into a friends with benefits so is it normal for boyfriend to want to have sex with me every time we see each other? And this is also considering that I was his first...
Most Helpful Guy
It's really normal. I consider it a huge red flag if my girlfriend didn't want to have sex daily as much as i did early on in a relationship. When i was young, i accepted it, but now, i'd probably quietly break up and move on. Sitting in love with someone who doesn't want you the way you want them is misery.
This is NOT to suggest you should or shouldn't be having sex that often.
- it's normal even for someone who wants a full loving relationship to want sex that often
- cutting off sex like some people have suggested will kill the relationship, just like if he thought 'i wonder if she only likes me because i listen to her, i won't let her talk for a week and see if she sticks around' would kill it
- if you two have wildly different sex drives, it's an issue that needs to be resolved in a way that works for both of you, or it's going to be a dealbreaker.0
Most Helpful Girl
i think that's just OTT. if he's just wanting sex every time then its obvious he isn't interested in much else. use ur head girl.0