is there anything i can do to increase my chances of meeting someone?
I joined a volunteer group, no interesting guys there. I was on dating apps for months, bur right now im only on one. still nothing. And there is no interesting guys in any of my courses, and untill now i haven't met any interesting guys at work either.
I joined a sports team too, i go to the gym regulary.. Im not shy, maybe not the mot putgoing person, but deff not shy.
There are many, many different volunteer groups. Look at others. There are also spiritual/religious groups... if you're into that. There are art classes and other activities to get involved in. You can also ask and talk to your friends for suggestions.