Going out with a guy for the first time. He is sweet and dedicated to me and having a serious relationship. Any ideas where we can go?
Most Helpful Guy
I recommend places that don't involve an "obstacle" for conversation/intimacy and building a connection/bond.
An example of a huge obstacle is a movie theater where you two end up being glued to a chair watching a screen. That's a couple of hours you two could have otherwise spent talking, laughing, teasing each other, etc.
A moderate example is a fancy restaurant. The formality can make it a bit difficult to kind of lighten up and experience some kind of icebreaker which allows you two to connect. The dinner table is also an obstacle.
A light obstacle is like a dining/coffee table. It doesn't grant as much physical proximity as like sitting on a park bench shoulder-to-shoulder, though it's not a huge obstacle.
My favorite place to go on a first date was always the amusement park (a little bit immature but it's nice). Any kind of nervousness and tension we had around each other was usually dispelled after a single roller-coaster ride, making it easy to go to from being a little tense and formal to laughing and joking and possibly holding hands.0
Most Helpful Girl
I'm more into simple things, so from my perspective:
· a walk somewhere in nature (i. e. park 🌳)
· coffee date ☕
Some fun places would be:
· adventure parks (idk how they are called in English, but I'm talking about those places with roller coasters and such if you have those 😛)
· bowling 🎳 (or any other game 🎮 😄)