I am 25 he is 27, he is a medical student and so am I, he is on his final term, I am on my first, and he seems to study a lot. He was very polite in asking me out, and although I was a total bitch on the first date, he asked me out again. On our second date we went to the movies, we had dinner at his place, we conversed, cuddled a bit, and I went home. There was no kissing, groping whatsoever. The thing is he seems like a really nice guy, but before I left his place he asked me to be his girlfriend, which I thought was very weird. Then I told him to give me some time and we parted ways. What are your guys views on this? Ladies, Has this ever happened to you, and men how soon do you ask a girl to be your girlfriend?
Most Helpful Guy
I would politely say to him look, its way too soon for me, i would like to take things a bit more slowly and get to know each other more. If he is really nice guy, then he will wait. time reveals a persons true colours.
take things one step at a time, Don't invest more than you can afford to lose. When you first meet someone, you have always got too look at their motives first? you will crazy to give the benefit of the doubt too soon.
Just play it cool with him for now, don't mean playing games with him of any sort. But just be on your guard, Keep your cards close to your chest for now, and don't reveal to much about yourself to him, too soon, meaning to give him to much details about yourself yet.
The saying goes, never show someone your making a sausage, meaning you don't want them to know the ingredients of that sausage. which means don't give too much details about yourself.
If give me information about yourself, and I can hang you for it.0
Most Helpful Girl
I've had 3 boyfriends and they all asked me to be their girlfriend within the first two weeks... I guess when you know, you just know. If you like him enough to be his girl, go for it! If not, just tell him that you'd like to date him a little more before you figure it out. I think he just knows what he wants and goes for it, but you don't need to do anything you don't want. Good luck!1