Hun, you're pretty to someone. Don't listen to these "you have to get in shape" or "you need to wear make up". You don't need any of those things unless it makes YOU feel good. Don't change your appearance for some guy. Any guy who is basing you off your appearance is most likely looking to just hook up with you; not to be your boyfriend. Be yourself. Get comfortable in your own skin and any changes you want to make, do them for YOU. Find that confidence within you. Confidence attracts men. I'm sure you have a beautiful personality and soul, to match your physical appearance. But never, NEVER change for a man. Good luck. If you need any tips, feel free to message me.
don't ever let a man's view of u define the way u think of yourself. that's so wrong. u look at yourself and u have to learn to be comfortable in your own skin. if you're not, work hard until you are. do u need to lose weight? do u need to gain weight? would u like to grow out ur hair? maybe a little mascara on the lashes? maybe spend a day in the sun with ur friends for a nice glow?
stuff like that. it should be about the way YOU see yourself and want to improve yourself. then u get confidence.