Most Helpful Guy
Not at all.
It is a huge bonus in that we have an interest in the same thing lol. It gives us something else to talk about.
And I do not feel my masculinity is threatened at all by her interest in women. It seems obvious to me that if she wants a woman, it isn't because I'm not fulfilling her, it is because I fulfill her desire for the masculine, but obviously can not fulfill it for the feminine. So it isn't that I am not fulfilling her, as much as there is something else she wants that I can't offer. That NO man can offer.
As long as we come to an agreed way for her to find that satisfaction, and she doesn't feel she needs to leave me to get what I can't offer, there is no reason for me to be insecure.
Girls don't like other girls because a man isn't enough. They like other girls because women are beautiful and what sane person could not want that?1
Most Helpful Girl
My Best Friend is Bi and happily married to a man. She currently identifies as Dale's (her husbands name) but before she got together with him she did have a 2 year long relationship with a woman in which she was also very loyal. She falls for the person not the gender, that is secondary for her... so there is probably a better name then Bi for it I don't know.1