OK so I know this guy for nearly 3 months and we have been "hanging out" for 2 months and a half. We see each other once every week when we're both in town. I'm sure that we are dating because just the two of us go out at the evening (most of the time) together. Who the hell wants to go out with a new friend from the opposite gender that regularly? But whenever he wants to see me and ask me out he always says: Wanna meet up? I read a lot about the confusion between "hang out" and "date", the problem is many guys are afraid to be true with their feelings, and also "hang out" requires less commitments. I just want him to confirm whether we're dating or we are just friends. Because I don't wanna waste my time and his as well if the relationship won't go anywhere!
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It has Only been ''3 months' and hopefully still counting here, dear, so for Now, go slow with Joe's flow. He may Not be Ready as a Steady Eddy, and with you Both nursing and Nurturing something Special to Start, Time is your Best from the Rest.
Rome was not Built in a day and neither was a Good Relationship. For the time being, allow him to title this as "Hanging out" for what He means it to mean because Later.. he could slap another title of "MY girlfriend."
If you see 3 more Months have passed you by and still no Try, Face him down with a Frown and a More Explicit Way so you Know what Exactly is going On... That day.
Good luck. xx1
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