Normal girls like the guy asking her on dates, taking initiative and pursuing her. I just realized I don't like it, it turns me off. Is something wrong with me?
Don't like being pursued?
What Guys Said 1
Maybe you don't like it when a stranger comes out of nowhere and tries to pick you up.
When developing a friendship/familiarity first, it's much more appealing to most people to make a move then. A lot of girls prefer it this way.
I've grown to embrace it, because almost all cold approaches end up being a waste of time and effort, whereas actually befriending her gives a better perspective on whether or not she's the right personality for me.
What Girls Said 2
I feel you.
I hate it when men check me out.
I absolutely hate it.
I remember when I was 14 and in my class this 16 year old guy was checking me out and whispering to his friends about my body; talking about my ass, etc. I use to wear loose jeans but long fitted sweaters and shirts. I thought it was modest but apparently they still stared.
Caught this one guy staring at my ass when I stood up to talk to the teacher. Everytime I got up ID walk backwards because I felt so embarrassed.
I caught my guy friend starin at my boobs once.
I dress now in really loose clothing. I hate it because the thought of a man staring at my body is revolting. I don't want some random stranger to do that.
Other women dress up to catch attention and I dress up not to.0
I do but I won't mind doing some chasing too ;)0
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