I tried to go to a bar yesterday to meet girls. Tried talking to 6 different girls and they all rejected me. One of them even yelled at me to go away and leave her alone.
After 6 rejections I felt I couldn't take anymore so I just sat at the bar by myself and drank a couple beers watching TV.
Should I just give up trying? I feel like I should just lay down and rot
"Hi my name is Mario, what's your name?"
Then I just make normal conversation like
"Do you come here often? Do you like the music here? I know the DJ and can tell him to play a song for you."
Just whatever comes to mind really I'm not very direct in my approach
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Personally I quite like talking a lot first, even for a one night stand I'd want to trust the guy first, and you can't really talk normally at a bar since it's usually loud and noisy. Any guys who come up to me at a bar I tend to reject VERY quickly, sometimes I might talk a bit for the confidence boost but I wouldn't trust him. Worst of all I always doubt my own judgement cos of course I'm drunk. RJGraveyTrain is right, a bar isn't a great place to pick up girls - it definitely isn't you, it's the setting.
Have you tried online? Tinder, Plenty of Fish etc.0
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