I'm attractive I get checked out all the time, especially at the gym but guys never come talk to me and if they do they don't make a move. All of my guy friends find me fun to talk to and hang out with. So I don't know what the problem is.
I'm in college and every guy in my class is already in a relationship so the only other places I really would meet anyone is at the gym since I'm there five days a week. Otherwise randomly while I'm out with friends but we usually stick to just us stuff while we hung out basically have a girls day since all of my girl friends are in relationships. I also don't like bars which I do get hit on and have my number asked for but I don't enjoy that atmosphere.
I tried online dating I get asked out all the time on there but the ones that actually carry a conversation that I'm attracted to also usually end up wanting more of a friends with benefits deal which I don't.
Any tips? Or ideas on what I'm doing wrong?
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when women like yourself are in the Hot 10 its hard for you get a guy. Men don't want to ask because they feel like you way out of there league and they will be turned down. Stop waiting and when you see a guy at the gym, ask a guy out. Being 20 as well is young for men to think of a serious relationship. But to break the spell, ask a guy out at the gym. If to nervous ask him to do a run outside or if he wants to try this new restaurant.0