Someone had asked a question what is bothering you right now? Well thanks to her I am now posting a question.
So my boyfriend hasn't texted him for two days, no contact. About a week ago he said he wanted some space, we texted every day, me initiating most of the time. And he knows I am alone this weekend and he hasn't reached out to see how I am. Why should I have to do everything? Why should I be the first text? Why hasn't he contacted me? It's not hard, even something as simple as, "hope you had a good day, been busy, goodnight honey." That would be enough. I don't ask for much. Ugh! It's weird though, I don't miss him as much as I used to. Sometimes I had missed him so much that I cried but I don't feel that way now. Now it's just like, I miss him ok but I'm doing alright, hanging in there for the most part.
It sounds like both of you are sort of testing each other. I think you should wait to let him initiate. I understand it can be frustrating and maybe even hurtful, but giving him some space right now to let him clear his head is probably the best thing for your relationship. And once you guys pick things up again and the timing is right, maybe you could explain to him that you care so much about him it's difficult to not communicate better/more often. Just try to do it in a way that won't make it sound like you're guilt tripping him.