- It is a good idea.24% (7)57% (17)41% (24)Vote
- It is a bad idea.31% (9)33% (10)32% (19)Vote
- I have no idea.45% (13)10% (3)27% (16)Vote
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Erm, perhaps not:
Erm, perhaps not:
I definitely wouldn't suggest it if I were the guy. Girls would prob think I wanted to see them in a swimsuit, which is generally not what you're trying to do on a first date lol! I would be perfectly happy if the girl suggested it though
I don't think it's the best position to show yourself to another in the very beginning. Even though it could end up very touchy and romantic, but I just don't feel doing it first up.
It wouldn't bother me. I wouldn't do it because it makes the assumption that everyone knows how to swim. I always make that mistake because I've known how to swim for as long as I can remember.
I think it's a good idea, depending on the weather and temperatures there, and if you both like swimming, why not huh
well if u r confident with ur body, go for it! its romantic, not crowded, and fun. i usually do it for 2nd date tho
Depending on circumstances, it could work.
Can't even swim lol
Sure, why not? It's just something to do. Maybe if you have fun there will be a second date.
No, especially when you live in the kind of climate that I do. Really the best first date is a cup of coffee "Wel I don't drink coffee". They have other options, ya know
It's an idea.
Whether it's good or bad is up to the people that do it.
For me it's a bad idea - I don't want him seeing me in, basically, my underwear unless I know him well and am sure he's the dude that I could see myself with.
The beach is better. That way you can either swim or just sit and talk and watch the sunset over the water or something. And it's prettier/more romantic
Ummmm first date maybe not, coz not everyone is very confident in a swimsuit, u don't even know if the other person knows how to swim, u could give the wrong ideas (like someone could think: OMG he wants to see me naked or sort of lol, people's minds are diverse xD) So, I think that for a first date it wouldn't work for everyone.
If you don't mind possibly getting physically touched then go for it.
I personally wouldn't since I don't like to show my body and don't want to set myself up for the situation of an intimate kiss/make out on the first date
I think he wants to see you without makeup and with your normal hair. Thats an aweful idea for the first date. Try to suggest something diffirent.
eh if your okay with your body lol!
Awful idea. That's more like the 8th date lol.. first date you have to look flawless, it's a time to getting know each other, flirt, talk, laugh etc.
Like in a public pool? Bad idea. No time to have any date time to get to know each other and talk.
you want them to like you before they see you with most of your clothes off
If you're both interested in swimming sports it coud be a good idea. otherwise not I think.
Are you prepared to wear your bikini? This is the question you should ask yourself