I don't want to sound desperate but I tried signing up cause I'm already 25 but never been in a relationship, not an issue to me until most of my friends and people I know same with my age are getting engaged and married. I'm happy for them but at the end of the day, I get lonely. feeling alone😕
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I met my current boyfriend on POD just over a year ago. I weeded through a lot of people before finding him.
I joined because my lifestyle doesn't allow meeting men. I work full time bizarre shift work, and homeschool my daughter, who I share 50/50 with her father. Going out to bars is just a no partly because the nights I can go out are often nights no one else can. Meeting people through work is a no because I don't date coworkers and no one there appeals to me romantically. Meeting through friends is a no because i usually already know or work with their single friends.
I joined Match first, and dated some nice guys. I honestly only had a couple who thought they would try to sleep with me and ghost when they couldn't. The rest were fun, but not very compatible after a few dates. Then I met my current guy and can't recall a time I've been happier with anyone.
Sure, you get messages from guys you aren't interested in, but you stay with it long enough and you will find the treasures buried in with them. You won't find it immediately, you need to stick with it a while.