So I have to go to the doctor Monday for something that I won't mention, but I'm beyond scared and just really want support from my boyfriend. He knows how scared I am and I've literally begged him to come. It's at 7:30 a. m. And he's like "that's so early" everytime I ask him he says it's highly likely he will come and today I said "If it's highly likely then please just say yes, cause I'm so scared I won't have anyone with me and I don't wanna do this alone." His response? What if I drop you off and pick you up? I just don't understand why he won't come when he knows how scared I am. Like I've been in tears for two days about needing to go to the doctor for this.
Most Helpful Guy
Judging by his attitude, i dont think you'd get the support you need even if he WAS there.
If he had something equally as important going on at the same time as your appointment, then i can understand. But refusing to go to something that your girlfriend has been in tears over, simply because its "too early" (which by the way, 7:30 isn't that early at all to begin with), is completely selfish and inexcusable.0
Most Helpful Girl
This sounds shitty :( I'm sorry he's not being supportive. I guess this also depends on how long you two have been together and how serious the relationship is. If you guys have been together for a while and are serious about each other, then it's pretty important that he support you when you need it, even if it's early in the morning. That doesn't just go for boyfriends; regular friends should be willing to do that too. That's how you show you care about people.0