Lets say your best friend told you that had feelings for someone but didn't tell you who
then you meet a girl/guy that hes/shes around a couple months later you 2 become friends and eventually have feelings for eachother
you end up dating and your friend never tells you that they practically loved the person you were dating because they didn't want to hurt your relationship
but one day they couldn't take it and blurted out how they felt about your girlfriend/boyfriend before you even met them
how would you feel?
would you brake up with them?
- Brake upVote A
- Stay with themVote B
- otherVote C
Most Helpful Guy
They should be mature enough to understand that their chance (if they had one) passed and that there are other people out there. That "love" was likely just infatuation unless they had a serious history together. If you like the person you are with, then continue to date them as you want. It's not your problem or you're partners that they had feelings that never went anywhere. If they are your friend they should understand.0
Most Helpful Girl
I'd stay with my partner. I love my best friend but I'm not going to choose between my friendship and my relationship like that. If it hurts her, then I'll stop talking about him and we'll do more stuff just the two of us without him and try to take her mind off of him but I can't give up the person I love over that.1