Pick up artists everywhere claim that they have the secrets to getting the girl, a lot of the stuff they say are quite true and work well except for... approaching random girls you just thought are attractive.
I've been approached by girls few times but have never done it before mainly because i dont see the point in it, most of the times the girl will say no in poilte way but no is no, even online countless girls claimed that being nice, confident and striking up a conversation before asking for the number works... yet they came back few minutes later to point out that they would never actually give their number to a stranger guy...
Tbh they've got a point, and most girls who agree to actually give their number to a guy they've literally just met are usually not girlfriend material at all.
So my question is simple, if a girl says yes to a complete stranger she's usually not the kind you wanna date and if she is actually good enough she's gonna say no, either way you're fked, so why bother?
Why should a guy no matter how hot or succesfull approach a stranger for her number? or a date?
There are only two rules of the hunt my friend, always be your honest self, and never get discouraged and give up. The lion, the apex predator of the jungle, has only a 1 in 10 success rate while hunting. Out of the 10 girls you ask at the bar, at least one will say yes. Therefore your career as a hunter will not be defined by the yeses, it will be defined by the nos. The more nos you get, the closer you'll be to that yes. You have to expect the no, and think to yourself, she's prolly a lessie, or prolly had a boyfriend she loves. Can't take the nos personally. So just being yourself, walk up to girls, and ask them for their number. Now get out there and bag me some bitties!
Unless you're really attractive or have status (famous or popular in your area) girls aren't going to approach you too often.
I think its good to approach but you want to have a relaxed attitude. Like you want to sleep with them but you don't really care if they say no because you know you have other options. Appearing desperate, or bitter will kill your chances.
Also dont believe them if they give you that cliched "im not that kind of girl" line. What they usually mean is "Im not that kind of girl ANYMORE". Most likely they have hooked up with other guys in the past, they just dont want to hookup with YOU. So if you get that line just move on to the next one.
Some people don't care about meaningful relationships and just wanna get laid. I think that is a horrible idea. I like it, but I would approach them with absolutely no sense, and make a fool of myself. And though I have convictions, I would feel disappointed if I didn't get laid after all that work. So being a future one woman family man, I try not to practice that.
... meaning paying actresses to let me approach them on the street and talk to them, so everyone will think I'm great :) (mind you, I think he's as of yet the only so-called "pua" that has been found out)
So you have been brought up believing any girl who would go out with you is not girlfriend material. I'm going to take a wild guess that any girl who actually wants to touch your penis is also not girlfriend material. Proper girlfriend material women are asexual, don't judge on looks, want you to be friends first. Right?
And this was all good advice people gave you growing up, not just some pile of brainwashing to discourage premarital sex, right?
Maybe think about that one for a bit before deciding what kind of girl you're hoping to date.