Why do some guys get intimidated when I make the first move?

I'm a very straight foward no bullshit type of person. The weird thing is that I just started to hang out with this guy and after a couple dates I noticed he was very shy. I then proceeded to make the first move. I kissed him and we kissed for a while but he ended up stopping and saying he had to get going. He later told me he felt uncomfortable that I made the first move. This had happened before! Why is is such a bad thing?


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What Guys Said 2

  • It shouldn't be... he's just being kinda a pussy about it. It's his fault, nevertheless he's shy. Should've made the first move then.

  • I think that most guys are just so not used to that happening they aren't sure how to respond.


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